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There is no such thing as a perfect relationship because no one is perfect and everyone is different. We understand that so we make some adjustments in our relationship so it will last. But there are some major don't that should be avoided completely otherwise our relationship is destined to fail.

One is negative criticism, better known as nagging. Proverb 21:9 says- better to dwell in a corner of a housetop than in a house shared with a contentious woman. Don't laugh men- this applies to you as well. Nagging is very irritating and it wears on the nerve. It'll remove joy and love out of a relationship.

Secondly infidelity, better known as cheating. When one cheats on their Mate a bond is broken and it's very difficult to restore it. Please don't think candy, flowers, money, jewelry, a nice car or a new house will restore the relationship because it won't. This is a matter of the heart and only time can heal the hurt. In time the hurt may leave but there will probably always be a remembrance of it so the level of trust has decreased and that along is a strain on the relationship.

Thirdly with-holding yourself from your Mate as a way of punishment. It is alright to with-hold ourselves if we are fasting but even in that we need the agreement from our Mate to do it. We should never just do a fast and our Mate doesn't know anything about it. To with-hold ourselves from our Mate as a punishment to them will only open the door for them to go out and find someone else to fulfill the need that we didn't fill.

Fourth keeping secrets. On one is going to share every little thing. I am not talking about that. I'm talking about big things like making major decisions without our mate knowing about it. In a relationship, two people should be like minded and in agreement on things. When it's not like that one will feel left out which can cause a lot of confusion and resentment? Sharing brings intimacy and that can lead to a stronger relationship.

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